Believe it or not, every time when people are about to do something bad or being lazy, the first though would be about denying to do that.
But, after the first though, the second one appears. This second though basicly encourage us to forget the first thought and continue with the sin.
This "second though" of mind, believe it or not, It comes from the people around us.
Let me share an experience with everyone:
The moment when im about to attempt something bad, there`s a picture appear in my mind;The picture of someone else doing that same bad thing.Its weird that in reality, the fella in the picture ends up getting caught or something ,but IN YOUR MIND, YOU WONT CARE ANY CIRCUMSTANCE THAT HAPPENED ON THAT FELLA MIGHT HAPPEN ON YOU!Its like a shut down button of Mr. Right in your mind!
Its the same thing that will appear in your mind if you are tend to get lazy:
Me talking in my mind: Alamak~ Homework again?! Lets just leave if for tomorrow.
first though: No way! you will be called by teacher and get some "rewards" !!
(a flashback about Chun Kiat telling me "no need to finish the homework" is being played),then my second though says: You see that Chun Kiat, he didnt do his homework also won`t get caught, he summore get 1st place in class, Iya~ no need to do homework la!
My mind: Hmm....That seems reasonable~ Ok! Dont do, dont do lor~!
AND THEN, LAZINESS OCCURS AND I REALLY GET SOME "REWARDS" THE NEXT DAY.
Its quite shocking that the people around us REALLY DO AFFECT our thoughts!In the subconscious sneaky way!
I always don`t believe that people around us will affect us before and always thought that I will be strict and confident about being persistence no matter how bad my surroundings are, and I though "近朱者赤，近墨者黑“ was just a joke if you can resist the surroundings(easy peasy).
But I found out that I was wrong! After I self-research myself, I learnt that:
1.Being persistence is hard especially if your friends are naughty friends, although you won`t accept do something bad with them, but sooner or later you will slowly accept to do it by yourself, because the image of your friend inviting you to do bad thigs keep repeating in your brain, making you unaware about the circumstance that you are about to face.(trust me, Its true)
2.Being exposed to "Western Culture" through media like sex, violence, racist songs and not to forget, bad words ,are something that WILL affect your thinking subconsciously(sneakily). I know that everytime we do our rumusan or karangan, we will always face some hot topics like, Punca-punca perempuan mengandung sebelum kahwin, Gangsterisme, Jenayah sering berlaku terkini, Kerosakan harta benda and all these karangan will have the two things in common : Dipengaruhi oleh Media massa & Dipengaruhi oleh kawan atau sekelilingi!
We, the people who listen and write out these isi-isi always write, read, nod, and then ignore it and thought that "these were nonsense" or "It wont happen on me".
People! Listen here! The government choose these topic for us to write in school not because they are lazy to think about other topics, but, they want us students to know better about the negative side of exposing ourselves to bad friends, media, Internet and so on because they care for us but we think all these government effort are rubbish!!!In the end, they are doing the right thing for us and we keep criticise them.So, be grateful about what you learnt at school!
3.Its easy not to be lazy or naughty if you change your thoughts into Angel and Devil, spend some time longer to let them debate and in the end, the angel sure will win. This will help us be clear about what we are about to do and whats the purpose of doing it.
So, to be honest, im still struggling about laziness(not naugthiness), trying to fight back with a "hardwork sword". May God give me strength and bravery to defeat the evil lazy, making my live and my friends a whole lot better . PEACE~
